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Hair Rules

A Kitchen Prayer

By Judey Kalchik Published about 2 hours ago 1 min read
Hair Rules
Photo by Polly Alexandra on Unsplash

Gathering my hair

with my right hand

my left stretches

any one of my

multitude

collection

protection

array of

hair tamers

shamers

restrainers

to subdue strands

and protect consumers

of viands.

It's ingrained

my hair to be restrained

my covering

my glory

inconveniently drifting

where it it ought

not.

rebellious

wild

curling and coiling

subject to the

opinions of all

never smooth

enough

never curled

enough

never long

enough

rough ends

too short

too long

tuck behind

your ears

show off

your face.

Tie it back

cook dinner

hair in the food?

Must be on purpose.

Deliberate defiant

Tied up for your comfort

Tied back to avoid trouble

Tied into knots of compliance

with notes of defiance

and cords of regret.

Mental Health

About the Creator

Judey Kalchik

It's my time to find and use my voice.

Poetry, short stories, memories, and a lot of things I think and wish I'd known a long time ago.

You can also find me on Medium

And please follow me on Threads, too!

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  • Denise E Lindquistabout 2 hours ago

    Love it! Wishing my hair wasn't thinning and falling out in spots! I'm working on it! I told the dermatologist after hearing options, that I want my hair until I'm dead, and I don't expect that to be too many more years. So I need to be careful about what I do, after listening to some of her options.😉

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